That doesn’t mean he is satisfied or happy with that dynamic, or that he isn't capable of pursuing you if he’s motivated to do so.

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Sure, he’d be okay with having casual sex with her and hanging out until something better comes along.

But I don’t know many women who enjoy being the good-enough-for-now option.

If the relationship moves forward, it's because he to lead toward commitment.

If a man tends toward an introverted personality, it’s even more important that you let him lead.

The good news is that you don't need to be an introvert to date one.

But to keep your romantic energy in balance, you will want to follow some basic rules.

(I like smart, nerdy, shy guys so much, I married one.) It's not surprising: these men tend to be quiet leaders — successful and widely respected.

There is an art to dating introverted men, though, and this article will help you decide if this personality type is your best match.

That may seem like a disappointing result at first, but it's a powerful gift in the long run. Study my flirting tips if you want to know how to enchant a man who tends toward a more subtle, quiet personality.

Since you’re not approaching men (by asking for their help or inviting them for coffee), the rules will help you avoid players and pick-up artists as well as looky-loos—dudes who stare at you or flirt or “favorite” your online profile, but who never actually ask you out. You don't need to pretend to be an introvert in order to attract one. WAIT until he asks you out – don’t make the first move.

What he responds to best is a woman with a light, feminine touch; like a beautiful butterfly, she shimmers just out of reach.