In other words, become the ideal spouse of your ideal spouse.However, it never hurts to be more attractive than required as that opens up more possibilities.

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Now, I’m probably not the best example of talking about which people are undatable due to attraction issues as I have high standards, but the sad fact is that 67-70% of people in the USA are overweight or obese. No one wants to marry someone that is overweight or obese.

Sure, some overweight and obese people do get married, but the simple reality is that both men and women want someone who is aesthetically attractive to look at.

You need your foot in the door to even have a shot at becoming a keeper to a man.

Most men don’t like women who are overweight or obese. The second issue has to do with the feminization of the church.

They are carried every which way because they are not grounded in the faith.

They are preached at by their failings, yet not instructed with concrete examples of what they should be doing or the road they should be walking.

The two main areas that I always suggest to women who do want men to “step up and lead” are: You really want to know why there are no eligible Christian masculine men?

The atmosphere in the church is hostile to such men.

Simply put, most men’s ministries are sad shells of what they could be.