In a message sent to all members, he said that only 6,041 of the 3.3 million people who use the site every day are in fact women looking for no-strings-attached trysts – adding “the ones with hot pictures are mostly men pretending to be women.”The computer systems graduate who founded the website - which now has a turnover of more than m (£6.6m) a year - in 2003, said he now wants it to now focus on ‘meaningful relationships.’Mr Frind said: “When I created POF, I wanted it to be all about finding relationships with the right person.For the first seven years, this worked really well, I got the site to 10 million users without any employees and Po F was generating a ton [sic] of relationships”But Frind said he would now be making changes, adding: “Intimate Encounters on POF can be summed up as a bunch of horny men talking to a bunch of horny men pretending to be women.”In other changes he has curtailed users from contacting members where there are age gaps of 14 or more years.

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We gotta talk to you like we’re talking to 5 year olds or we’re accused of “bullying” or being angry. White women will get this ire and I don’t care about their tenderness right now. And if you wanna hear me SAY THIS, watch the 5th episode of my weekly show Rants and Randomness.

One woman told me she does “resistance work” and then turned around to try to police my words. In spite of people insulting us, abusing us and taking us for granted, we do what we need to do. Sit in your discomfort and commit yourself to doing better. Follow @luvvie Have you bought my NYTimes-bestselling debut book I’M JUDGING YOU: The Do-Better Manual?

It is time for getting comfortable with being uncomfortable (see: my TED talk related to this).

The amount of white women tears that have been in my mentions and comments tonight. White women are telling me I’m hurting their feelings and insulting them, as if I talked about them personally.

It ain’t about YOU, but about us upholding our end of being superheroes on Earth. I hope she learned the lesson that proximity to whiteness is not a strategy for winning, especially when whiteness is only loyal to itself. Those of you with sense need to call your sisters, cousins, aunties and moms unto the carpet and have the tough conversations that are easy to avoid.

She is proof that loyalty to white men gets you nothing. But if she knew true allyship sometimes means knowing shutting the fuck up is free, she would have chosen different. People are giving themselves too much credit, though. I just realize that white women have a lot of work to do, and it’s time we start pointing fingers at them, for their role in the country’s issues. You haven’t done the things that have made you worthy of our grace, but we give it anyway. Oh, and Omarosa getting walked out the White House should be a teaching moment. And let me repeat: DO NOT SEND ME A MESSAGE OR COMMENT SAYING I’VE HURT YOUR FEELINGS. Yesterday was the much-anticipated (and dreaded) race for Alabama’s newest senator. So I spent the time avoiding the news and social media. The women who voted for Roy Moore are the women you break bread with. White women can’t sit on a high horse and think the women in Alabama aren’t them. We SHUNNED Omarosa when she started supporting Voldemort. We didn’t know what to expect, because in this topsy turvy country, we can still expect a pedophile to win. I didn’t wanna watch the results because I’m just tired of getting confirmation that America is the den of iniquity and the idiocracy that thrives is beyond repair and everything is trash. If two-thirds of any other group did some thing that was this damaging, we would be getting annihilated for it. Sit in these hurt feelings and deal with accountability, for once. The point is that as a group, white women are fucking up left and right. Folks out here playing oblivious, as if these women exist in a vacuum. So for the white women who are disgusted by Alabama, and by the 53% of your sisters who voted for Trump. Are you still going to brunch with these women who vote against YOUR interests too? Black women hold folks (and each other) accountable.Mr Frind also recently boasted an estimated one million babies will have been born because of people connecting through his website.