If you act like you are miserable without her; she will just get less and less attracted to you until she decides to cut you off from her life.

This guide is for you if your ex girlfriend dumped you.

And it’s for you if you broke up with your ex girlfriend and still want her back. Each stage will have objectives for you to accomplish. The optional objectives are not important to win her back permanently, but they definitely do help in the process and they will increase your chances significantly.

Texting her again and again is a sign of neediness and desperation and no girl is attracted to a needy guy.

Notice how texting and calling her all the time are coming out of neediness and desperation instead of a genuine desire to speak to her and enjoy a conversation with her.

The goal of this stage is to get yourself to stop panicking and pushing your ex away. To make this easier for you to remember; here is a list of mistakes that pushes your ex away when you are in this stage.

Grief Stage: Bargaining Example: I am not sure if it’s the media, the movies or the damn TV shows.Grief Stage: Bargaining Example: Now that she has broken up with you; she doesn’t care how much you love her and what you are willing to do for her.(Note: It may have worked before the breakup in some cases.If I don’t let her forget me; she will realize how much she loves me and wants to be with me.I just need to stay in touch with her.” This one is obvious.Imagine if you could just overcome obstacles and finish stages in your life to get your ex girlfriend back in your arms.