However, perhaps controversially, arguably this is more of a pro than a con – as the saying goes, opposites attract!And there’s no sense in ruling someone out for reasons that may become insignificant once you’ve met in real life.But size isn’t everything – as anyone who has just wrapped up a three-hour swiping session on Tinder will attest.

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‘Only show me people without children’ ‘Only show me men over 6ft 1in’ ‘Only show me vegetarians’ ‘Only show me people who don’t want kids’ The tick-boxes on many dating sites are a common part of the structure of the sites – and people often fill them in and make their choices quickly, based on in-the-moment gut feeling, prejudice or a past bad experience.

But too many filters and rigid check-boxes can have you dismiss huge numbers of people at once – something that apps like Bumble, Happn and Tinder tried to do away with (though that brings its own set of issues).

It is 100s of questions long and asks many probing questions about religion and moral views.

Some find this a barrier to join, fans say it weeds out the casual chancer from those truly looking for love – and means you don’t have to wait to broach tricky topics.

Psychologists and dating experts guide you through each step of the process – including messaging, which is somewhat structured and scripted – and there’s an anonomisation function for calling.

There’s currently a 7-day free trial to communicate with matches for free until 1 January.Controversy swirled in 2010 around its lack of same-sex matching resulting in a site launched later for gay and bisexual daters called Compatible Partners, but e Harmony now offers matching for both mixed and same sex couples from the main homepage.Pros: Free to join and to have limited contact with members.You can browse a selection of pictures and ages before logging in, anything more specific requires you to become a member. As with many free or low-cost sites, ads can be frequent and feel spammy.There are no compatibility filters, so once you’ve filtered by the basics, there’s no way of narrowing it down.We wish sites would be more transparent about their fees.